Naturally when you're frustrated, it's no
fun at all! When you're frustrated, you don't think "This is a good thing, and now
it's time to change!" Rather, you are fed
up with the situation and want things to get better.
So here's a tip, the next time your feeling
frustrated, skip the uncomfortable feelings and go straight to the solution
state. This way you don't have to feel frustrated but rather you'll know you
need to change. Rather than burn energy on the frustration, shift that energy and
find a solution. Simply ask questions like:
How can I make this better?
What can I do to make things better?
What would ______ do in a situation like
this?
Although this will not feel natural, it
will help because you'll find a solution quicker, and avoid focusing on the
state of frustration - you'll learning to stay solution focused.
When you train yourself quickly go to a
solution focused state, your business will flow smoother; you can tackle
problems quickly, not to mention you build your confidence and personality.
That's The Way I See It!
Acey Gaspard
